40歳以上の男性!合コンやサイトでモテる男に共通する特徴

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いくつになっても「女性にモテたい」・「新しい出会いがほしい」・「可愛い子、綺麗な女性と付き合いたい」と思うのは当たり前。

しかし、40歳をすぎると「おじさん」の部類になり、若い頃と同じように、普通にしていてはモテなくなります。

特に合コンや、サイトでの出会いは、印象がなにより大切!

そこで今回は合コンやサイトでモテる男性の特徴などをご紹介します。

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40代以上でもモテる男性ってどんな人?

モテる

40歳になると、以前のように出会いもなく、稀にあったとしてもよい出会いに繋がる確率は低くなります。

闇雲に合コンやサイトに登録しても、まったく脈がなく。会うとダメになるパターンの繰り返し。そんな声もよく聞きます。

歳をとっているから仕方ないと諦める前に、女性が求めている事を知り、モテる男性に近づきましょう。

まずは40歳以上でもモテる男性の特徴をご紹介します。

見た目

何より見た目は大切です。40歳以上になると誰もが「おじさん!!」。

生まれながらのルックスは年齢とともに崩れていきます。

特に合コンやサイトで初めて出会う時は、一瞬で「この人いいかも!」と女性に評価されます。

顔だけではなく、体型、服装までをいかに意識して自分自信をメンテンスしているかが大切。

顔のかっこよさより、かっこいいオーラがある人、清潔感のある人がモテます。

性格

モテるための性格

見た目の次に大切なのが性格。特に合コンでよく見かける、うるさいだけの男性はモテません。

逆に物静かでも女性は何を話してよいか分かりません。

40歳以上という年齢相応の落ち着きが大切です。

 

コミュニケーション力

一緒にいて楽しい!と思わせるには、何より会話が大切。

特に話す事より聞くことが大切なのはよく言われることですよね。

コミュニケーションの中で女性の話を上手く引き出してあげてこそ、大人の男性の魅力。

さらに人生経験から自慢話をするのではなく、安心感を与える発言、大人の会話ができる人はモテます。

包容力

モテる男性包容力

相手の気持ちを考えて行動できるのは包容力のある人。

色々話したい、もっと近づきたいと女性も心を許し、距離もちかづきます。

ありのままの自分を受け入れてもらえたという安心感を与えるのも包容力。40歳以上の男性に求められる大切な条件です。

40歳以上 合コンでモテない男の特徴は?

先ほどご紹介した「モテる男」の逆が「モテない男」。

簡単に言ってしまえば、モテる努力をしない男性です。

体型、健康、服装など、40歳すぎても何も変えようとしないと「ダサいおじさん」で終わってしまいます。

そのまま、彼女や女友達がほしいなと思い、ノリだけで合コンに参加すると散々な結果になります。

よく、男友達3人で合コンに参加している男性グループを見かけますが、大抵、3人ともモテない要素満載なのです。

一人一人、努力をして合コンに参加すれば、すぐにモテるはずです。

実際にインタビュー!どんな40代以上の男性が好き?


既婚者合コンに2回以上参加したことのある女性たちに、「どんな40歳以上の男性が好き?」が聞いてみました。

一番多かった意見のトップ10をご紹介します。

  1. 落ち着きがあり、話をきちんと聞いてくれる人
  2. 年齢より若々しい人
  3. 外見や体系に気をつけている
  4. 会話が面白い(※ただうるさいだけはNG)
  5. さりげない優しさ
  6. シンプルな服装の人
  7. 女性だけではなく参加者の男性に対しても感じがよい
  8. 場の空気が読める人
  9. 話をきちんと聞いてくれる
  10. 笑顔が魅力的な人

女性の意見としては、見た目のかっこよさより、かっこいい雰囲気がある事が一番大切だそうです。

さらに40歳以上になると、自分を全面に出してくる男性が多いので、女性を立てて、話をしてほしいという意見もありました。

今すぐ実践!女性にモテる男になるための3つの行動

いきなりモテる男になることは現実的に無理があります。でも大丈夫!!

最短でモテるために今すぐ実践できる事を3つご紹介します。

身だしなみに気をつける

これまで身だしなみに気を遣わなかった人も、これを機会に一度見直してみてください。

服装はシンプルな物が一番好印象。

髪型、髭、爪、眉毛など、女性は意外と見ています。体臭や口臭も気を付けてくださいね。

体型に気を遣う

これまで自分の体型を気にすることがなかった人も、お腹が出ていないか、太っていないか気にしてみてください。

男性も女性の体型には好みがあるように、女性も太りすぎの人はNGです。

さらに少しでも運動している男性は、爽やかな印象で好感度が上がります。

仕事や趣味に打ち込む

仕事や趣味に打ち込んでいる男性に女性は惹かれます。

疲れきったサラリーマンオーラーでは絶対モテません。仕事や趣味の話は女性との共通点にもなり盛り上がる話題。

仕事でも趣味でもよいので、何か自分の好きな事をみつけてみてください。

まとめ

「40歳以上の男性!合コンやサイトでモテる男に共通する特徴」についてお伝えしました。

年齢が強力な武器となって女性を強く惹きつける40代以上の男性。

モテ期はこれからです。

まずは、合コンやサイトで出会いを求める前に、今の自分は「かっこいいオーラ」が少しでもあるか、気にしてみてください。

きっと素敵な出会いが待っています。



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